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The Fear and Grit of Woman She packs clothing made of pine and wenge wood: two shirts, a cap, a strand of prayer beads, and holy book wrapped in cloth. What lies under grains of fabric? Is this refugee baggage from one woman leaving her native country a vestige of what’s permitted? It’s not that she didn’t know someone could pry open her honey-coloured suitcase with the quilted lining made of heartwood and sapwood, delve straight through to her centre. She holds the key and has scored the grain for narrative. Although pine is easier to work with, she sands and sands the wenge with fine grit paper, adds pale stain as gold as toasted coconut while secrets hide tucked inside side pockets. Her finger traces grain along seams and collars of folded shirts. She inhabits tensile strength embedded in a matrix of her history and decisions, with layers of cambium fashioned of lignin and cellulose seeping into beads she rolls between thumb and finger. The contrast is the dark pistol someone laid outside the suitcase sanded smoother than a threat. ** Author's Note: Some of Abid's suitcases online don't have the weapon included. Her carvings are amazing. Instructions from My Mother Safety first. Keep your fingers from the edge. Be sure to use the insulated trivet beneath the iron as it heats or you’ll scorch the ironing board cover. It’s a joke nowadays, “Who does ironing anymore?” But when I reach for a tablecloth scrunched in a drawer I sometimes want to iron creases out. When sprucing up my office, I find curtains at IKEA. I think the fold lines will come out as the fabric hangs. Many months later and still sometimes I think I’ll fetch the ironing board from upstairs, slide the flowing white fabric from the rod, dampen it and iron out the wrinkles. It would be easy, if I’d only take the time. Ironing used to be a household rite of passage, women’s work, like darning socks or hemming dresses. My mother knew to meld the household arts of ironing and mending. When she went to work full time, Mom taught me to sprinkle water and iron each part of a shirt: the front, the side with buttons, the side with buttonholes, sleeves with the knife crease, the cuffs, the back. And finally, to finish with a pucker-free collar. Mom said a smooth line across the shoulder back could make up for many imperfections. I can’t believe I’m writing about ironing, but by God, this was something in life a woman could make go smoothly. My modern appliance emits wet steam at the tap of a button. But occasionally I plug in my mother’s old iron with the woven cord for little jobs that only need, as she would say, “a lick and a promise.” It’s the art of display. Women’s work: to make the ordinary beautiful. * "Istri" refers to smoothing iron in Pakistan, and woman/wife in India
Household Adages I am a modern woman. I do my best to iron out life’s wrinkles. Perhaps only yesterday, a vibrant CEO mixed her metaphors and said, “The contract’s ready. The ball is in their court. Now it’s just ironing out the details.” Everyone knows to do a job well and get it done pronto, for we’re all pressed for time. Mary Ellen Talley Mary Ellen Talley’s poems have appeared in many journals including Louisville Review, Deep Wild, and Trampoline as well as in multiple anthologies. Her chapbooks are: Postcards from the Lilac City, from Finishing Line Press, Taking Leave from Kelsay Books, and Infusion online at Red Wolf Journal. She resides in Seattle, WA and worked for many years as a school-based speech/language pathologist (SLP.) Her website is www.maryellentalley.com.
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Esther Helfgott
6/9/2026 01:01:36 pm
Stunning, MaryEllen. Just stunning. Thank u for all yr hard work.
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Esther Helfgott
6/9/2026 01:03:18 pm
Thank you!
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Sharon Cumberland
6/9/2026 03:33:18 pm
Mary Ellen is a great poet and longtime member of The Greenwood Poets of Seattle. We have enjoyed her wonderful work for years, and are proud to see these great poems published here. They are in her inimitable, clever, and heartfelt style. I love the way she merges her own artistry with that of Humaira Abid to form solidarity among women through time and space. Kudos to Mary Ellen, Humaira, and The Ekphrastic Review!
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Mary Ellen Talley
6/10/2026 12:34:12 pm
Many thanks, Sharon!
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